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Post No.7781
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உதவிக் குறிப்புகள்! – 9 –HELPFUL HINTS – 9 (71 to 90)
ச.நாகராஜன்
எனது பழைய நோட்புக்கில் எழுதி வைத்துள்ள, நான் படித்து வந்த, பல நல்ல புத்தகங்களின் சில முக்கிய பகுதிகளின் தொடர்ச்சி இதோ:
HELPFUL HINTS
குறிப்பு எண் 71 : Tact!
Tact can be defined “as the ability to say or to do the right thing at the right time”.
குறிப்பு எண் 72 : Don’t Argue!
In any discussion, never argue as if you are right and the other person is wrong. You may win the arugument, but you will lose an admirer, or customer. Say instead, “I agree with you, to a point. But don’t you think it could also be this way?” Then put forward your point of view calmly and lucidly
குறிப்பு எண் 73 : Faith in yourself!
The first essential to success is faith in oneself. Next the courage to act on that faith. The third essential to success is enthusiasm.
குறிப்பு எண் 74 : Success and Luck!
Success has nothing to do with luck. Success is the result of planning, patience and perseverance. If you plan well, if you have the patience to carry out your plan, and if you persevere in the face of abstacles, there can be only one outcome – SUCCESS!
குறிப்பு எண் 75 : Thinker and Doer!
Be better than the Thinker , be a doer! Dreams are worth less if they are not backed by schemes. In working out those schems follow – Einstein’s law of Success
A = X+Y+Z
Where ‘X’ is work
‘Y’ is play and
‘Z’ is keeping your mouth shut.
After you have learnt to keep your mouth shut –
Do more than look – observe;
Do more than hear – listen;
Do more than listen – understand;
Do more than read – absorb
Do more than desire – act;
Do more than exist – Live joyously!
Don’t open your mouth just because you have to say something, but speak only when you have something to say – something worthwhile, constructive or cheerful.
குறிப்பு எண் 76 : We are World Changers!
Let this sink deep within you, till it becomes part of you!
We are not World- shakers, but World Changers!
குறிப்பு எண் 77 : Money!
A successful businessman has stated :-
OBSERVATION + IMAGINATION = MONEY!
குறிப்பு எண் 78 : Carry slips of paper!
Carry slips of paper or perfectly a tiny notebook wherever you go. Jot down ideas, cute phrases, suggestions for the home and office or jokes and thoughts to include in letters.
குறிப்பு எண் 79 : 6 irksome causes!
The weak becomes irksome due to six main causes:
- Lack of interest 2. Lack of knowledge 3. Lack of Skill 4. Lack of congenial companions 5. Lack of an appreciative Boss 6. Lack of a congenial working place.
If you dislike your present work, find out the reason why.
குறிப்பு எண் 80 : Qualities of Leadership!
Qualities of Leadership :- 1) Be enthusiastic 2) Have a sense of humour 3) Be eager to learn 4) Share praise but shoulder blame 5) Enrich the lives of others 6) Never ridicule, Nag or Shout at anyone 7) Develop Dependability 8) Dont over-reach 9) Make few promises and keep them 10) Work for the cause
குறிப்பு எண் 81 : Are you over sensitive?
From the book Here’s Help by M.R.Kopmeyer
Are you over sensitive? 1) Get tough emotinally, ignore it! 2) Turn it Off (Turn off your emotions)
குறிப்பு எண் 82 : To overcome resentment!
From the book Here’s Help by M.R.Kopmeyer
To overcome resentment – 1) Change your attitude towards the cause of your resentment 2) Forget it!
குறிப்பு எண் 83 : Anger is self-prison!
From the book Here’s Help by M.R.Kopmeyer
Anger is self-prison – when angry count to ten before you speak; if very angry, count a hundred!
குறிப்பு எண் 84 : Don’t Worry!
From the book Here’s Help by M.R.Kopmeyer
Don’t worry and put yourself to self torture!
- Most of your worries never happened!
- Which did happen were not as disastrous as you worried they might be!
குறிப்பு எண் 85 : Never escalate a negative emotion!
From the book Here’s Help by M.R.Kopmeyer
Never escalate a negative emotion – Do not add emotional negatives!
குறிப்பு எண் 86 : Be like President Eisenhower!
From the book Here’s Help by M.R.Kopmeyer
Be like President Eisenhower who said, “ I never waste a minute thinking about someone I don’t like. Put a period after them!
குறிப்பு எண் 87 : Don’t Criticize!
From the book Here’s Help by M.R.Kopmeyer
Don’t Criticize! If necessary, then do not add emotion to criticism!
குறிப்பு எண் 88 : Unjust Criticism!
From the book How to stope worrying and start living by Dale Carnegie
Remember that unjust criticism is often a disguised compliment; Remember that no one ever kicks a dead dog!
குறிப்பு எண் 89 : Do the very best you can!
From the book How to stope worrying and start living by Dale Carnegie
Do the very best you can; and then put up your old umbrella and keep the rain of criticism from running down the back of your neck! DO THIS AND CRITICISM CAN’T HURT YOU!
குறிப்பு எண் 90 : Record for – ‘Fool things we have done!’
From the book How to stope worrying and start living by Dale Carnegie
Let us keep a record of the fool things we have done and criticize ourselves. Since we can’t hope to be perfect, let us do what E.H.Little did : Let us ask for unbiased, helpful, constructive criticism.
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