No Divorce! Secrets to have a Happy Relationship! (Post.10,540)

WRITTEN BY S NAGARAJAN
Post No. 10,540
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No Divorce! Secrets to have a Happy Relationship!

Santhanam Nagarajan

If you are thinking of a divorce, it is wrong!
The fault is with you only and not with the other partner!
So you have to contemplate on the basics of a Happy Relationship!
Please go through this article and jot down your findings. Eradicate the negatives and cultivate the positive qualities.

Every woman wants a person who is rich or in other words at least he must be able to earn that much by which the family will have a decent life. There is nothing wrong in this.

Even the Ganges whom the Lord Siva holds in his head does not touch and kiss his lips but goes to the earth and pave her way to the sea. Because, after all, Lord Siva is not rich! So says a poet!

Generally the women prefer a good looking man with countless virtues. She will bet aside even her good conduct and will offer herself to him. She will brought to a position of helplessness and will be like a boat by a whirlpool.

Remember a young woman give so much pleasure to the five senses of the lovers.

She pleases the eyes by her loving glances. She pleases the body by the softness of her person. She pleases the sense of smell by her fragrance of her mouth. She pleases the ears by her pleasing lovely words. She pleases by the sense of taste by offering her lotus face passionately for kissing.

The great Tamil Poet Thiruvalluvar says in his world famous Thirukkural, (Verse 1101) that “ you may find the simultaneous enjoyments of sight, hearing, taste, smell and touch in one place with bright resplendent armlets bearing damsel!

One should respect a woman for all times! Just for bodily pleasure if you approach a woman, she will not like you. The love should be mutual and should emerge from the heart.

What is happening in the pleasure-house? The young girl will bend her frame slightly stooping due to the weight of her bosom. The lord of her heart and life, that is the husband, united her with youth. Two mutually embracing warmly lovers are entering into the body of each other. And they are thus concealed. And, lo, no one can find their separate identity clearly discernible in this love sports!

And last but not least, the men should understand that the women are like the flames of lamps!

Yes, they are like the flames of lamps shining with soot in the form of their dark hair, and pleasing to the eyes but dangerous to touch (of course without their consent). They burn men as grass.
Finally a girl would prefer a youth by considering seven qualities in him, namely, his family back ground, his conduct, his physical constitution, his age, his learning, his wealth and his equality of status.

Man and woman should respect each other and the fundamental point here is to adjust and adopt!

WEDDING PROCESSION  FROM OLD TAMIL BOOK

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